BEAUTY COMES IN ALL SIZES, SHAPES AND COLOURS

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We in our society depend too much on what all other say and how others feel, and not on what we feel is correct. Despite of all modern time , we find majority of those who agree with the fact that what looks good or looks beautiful is actually good. But, still there are a few who think differently, who don’t believe that beauty just an appearance. They believe beauty is a feeling i.e. what they feel about the the person and not how he/she appears externally.

For me, there is no exact definition for beauty but it has a deeper connect how we observe people, things etc. I believe beauty comes in all sizes, shapes, colors, complexion, races etc. But for most of us beauty means being slim, being fair, being tall and the people who are fat or dark or short cannot be beautiful. What an age old thought!

Let me ask you all a question- how would you regard a person who is very beautiful and charming from outside but has no regard for others or considers him/her above others and doesn’t know how to  treat others? Is that person actually beautiful? What would be your answer- you will say selfish, rude arrogant etc. but not beautiful. This shows that no matter how much we look at the external beauty, in reality what matters is what one is from inside.

Now just imagine yourself coming across someone who is average , not special but you see him/her helping elderly , talking to others politely, gently giving respect and love to others, laughing giggling and enjoying. In short, a very kind hearted jolly bubbly person. Despite his/her looks you will feel a connect to that person and would appreciate his /her personality and classify his/her as a very good person. For me, such person is actually beautiful. 

You may appreciate whatever I am writing but still for most of you being beautiful might not change, but if I am able to express my thoughts and am able to put even a single person to think like me, I would feel happy and honored because change starts slowly and gradually and  it is enough if people  start thinking in this way.


By: Dr. Princy Narang

Engaginglifethoughts.blogspot.com

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